Grief | Loss | Widowed Young

Getting Through the First Summer After My Wife Died

I was in denial because it was too painful to face

Alan AJ
3 min readMay 2, 2024

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On a day trip with my children in August 2013, we spotted this squirrel near the crazy golf course in Stanley Park, Blackpool. Author’s photo

In the summer of 2013, I was in the early stages of grieving the loss of my wife Jane. Having lost my mum five years earlier, I felt very alone.

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Alan AJ

Life stories and opinions with a touch of humour. Gen X widowed father of two in England. Former electronics engineer and programmer. Prev. 'Autistic Widower'.